Tuesday, May 27, 2008

The Many Colours of Friendship

Friendship is one of the most precious jewels studding the crown of humanity. Faith, trust, and honesty are probably the three cornerstones upon which the foundation of friendship is built. Deception, treachery and betrayal are the bejeweled daggers that stab the heart of a true friend. Thoughtlessness and Indifference are the poisons that can nip a budding friendship even before it blooms. Jealousy and Ego are the insidious serpents that turn one friend against another. Friendship is never easy. Friendship can be cruelly heartbreaking at times, and be pleasurably rewarding at others. Friendship does not mean taking someone for granted, on the dissimilar it involves understanding each other to such a great extent that words are no longer required to convey one's feeling to the other. Friendship involves acceptance. Friends do not try to change each other, they accept each other for what they are, irregularities and flaws notwithstanding. Friendship is like a Weak thread that binds people , a delicate bond that demands careful handling since once a the thread gets knotted, even after careful efforts to disentangle it, the bond never truly remains as beautiful. At times friendship entails sacrifice and pain. But distance and time do little to diminish the intensity of true friendship. Finding Friendship is almost akin to finding true love, and I do feel that once you find your true friends you should never let them go, and let them know how much you value them.

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