Friends...

This one specially for my friens on this Friendship day…
People often get mess-up between Love n Friendships. Let’s give a try to simplify these stuffs

Q. how do u want your partner to be?
A. he/she should be a good friend.

the ans comes in micro-seconds....
there are many other points too, but this answer you will find comman in all.
even i believe that our partner shud be a good friend with whom we can share our good and bad times,secrets etc.
so ur love should be ur best friend.
but its inverse it’s not true.
u cannot develop crush on ur best friend. i mean its insane.
i guess this is the mistake which most of the people commit. they feel they are in love when they share a perfect rapport with a friend.
but the truth is they are just friends and not lovers.
to be in love is entirely different than to b friends. its just a entirely different stage.
a stage above friendship.
consider a pyramid with love at the top and friendship just below that.
that can even be explained by these two scenes:

SCENE 1-
Rahul and Anjali are two childhood friends. they share everything. Crushes, secrets, mistakes commited everything. Later on one day they both were in a beach. Suddenly a cool breeze blows away Anjali's dupata. it catches Rahul's glare. Background music starts and he feels "OMG I’m in love with her".
i m sorry to say but this only happens in Karan Johar’s movies. (This is the reason, why I hate SRK n KJ)

SCENE 2-
Pappu and Meghna met in comman friend’s party. they both gets attracted to each other. Pappu moves forward and strikes a conversation.he asks for her no.they started talking on phone.their meeting become frequent.they started sharing thier feelings,secrets etc.then one fine day Pappu proposes Meghna.

now if u see in both cases they were good friends. but love is only in 2nd case.
i always believed love needs attraction at first. but that doesn’t mean all attractions are love.
its very trully said u might have many good friends but you love only once.

NOTE: No two person's perspective about love is similar...