MiraclE

When I was young (of about 12), I read somewhere "Believe in miracles but donn depend on them" and ever since then my life has never been the same again! I started believing in miracles, and the miracles started happening, but when I depended on them, they avoided me. Today I am thinking about the saying once again, I want to believe in miracles once again, 'coz I want them to happen, I know I donn want to depend on them but I surely want to believe in them and firmly that too....

Don't worry guys, I have not turned spiritual suddenly.... when ur exams are on ur head and u have not prepared at all, you are left with no other options but to believe in miracles :-P

Search: what?

Before I start writing this post, I would like to thank Surya, Nagaraj, Basu, Husen, Akay(Akshata),Uma and Santosh (NJ and V), for sharing their precious Gyan and experience with me… :)

Without making much of shit, let's start with real thing…

When you take a first few steps to find a relationship for yourself in the office at following areas:

·Bus stops

·In the Bus

·Cafeteria

·Office premises

·Newspaper lounge etc…

You should know that you have very less possibility for actually finding one. The pretty face that you might go flat on and might be thinking to kick start the conversation hoping to go the long distance might already be engaged or committed or worse case married off. If it's a girl, then well you can identify with many signs.

Few of them are:

·Ring in the right hand, 4th finger.

·A sindoor

·Mehendi on hand might suggest if she s fresh from an engagement or a wedding or attending somebody else s but still chances are she might be having a long term sweetheart (college time or school time)

·Most of the time hooked on phone talks over it with lotsa shut-ups, blushes, pink cheeks, laughter and whisperings and so on.

·A special ringtone indicating the phone from special somebody when in middle of work. You might feel what if you were in that guy's place and had given the hot chick the call and talked long time….

·Many times you would ask your friend to peep into the girl's id (name or surname would do and the rest of it would be query to LOTUS or FINDER in the company intranet. First invites to coffees and subsequent rejection/acceptance would further decide the course of relationship.

And if you stepped to next step then trust me you are one lucky guy and you have lot of guts, but then challenges don't end up here. Now you have the biggest one to make her fall for you. And that's where the cheesy lines, movies, blogs or in a nutshell the common interests come up. If you happen to be from same city then nothing better than it. Trust me, the travels to the hometown would be together and the guy would make every step to ensure that the girl travels alright and with max comfort. You would pick up luggage for her, would pick her up in the auto or whatever, would book tickets for her, would get tea/snacks at the halt bus makes and would also share the same seat and the ear phone plugs with you…

For weekend (if travel is for weekend) you might not get hold of your girl in initial stages, but then the return travel is already planned and the tickets are booked. Once the relationship goes stronger, the travelling to hometown reduces and visits to pubs and MULTIPLEXES. And that's where the love steps in and makes/break the life up ahead, sounds pretty good. That's what it is making me think to get into to the clutches of love. (Not a bad idea for me…)

And, I did forget to add up that, the couple would have breakfast, lunch, tea, snacks, and tea again, dinner together. If you happen to be in Belgaum and in a typical Belgaum restaurant (old timer and a Lingayat restaurant) trust me you'd be either thrown out or you'd be insulted by the owner for having one thali and making 2 people eat(So what you are trying to save food for needy and poor people in Uganda), it's a loss of revenue for the owner that you are two in number, but eat in one thali. Eradu deha onde hrudaya, onde thali illi kelasakke barilla… And don't ever hug up or kiss in such restaurants (in old Belgaum or not so plush restaurants) you'd be kicked out with lot of moral knowledge being passed on to you by the owner…..

Where I am?

Thank God, I made some time to scrap here; it's been very tough week for me…

The good thing is that, I started studying for exam :), as I decided…

Meanwhile I was reading a book called "You Are Here" from a new bee Meenakshi Reddy Madhavan (well know blogger of The Compulsive Confessor), I saw her first on TV show called "Lounge" (the show I used to watch, sometime Rajesh too, before we shift to new room), the whole idea of this book was suggested by Rashmi.

Well, you may be wondering who this Rashmi is after all? (Very few of my friends knows her)

Rashmi is my cousin (my mom's brother's daughter), she is almost of my age (10-15 days younger/older than me doesn't matter), she is gorgeous ("Beautiful" just not a right word for her), studying medical, my brother and two of my cousins adore her like hell (I'm not the exception, once upon time I too had crush :P), instead of cursing us (like any other gal), she enjoys all attention. When spoke to her last time (may be 2 month back), she suggested me two book to read for better understanding of gals, 1.You Are Here and 2.A Girl Like Me. I did manage to get first book (second one I didn't find, n don't have any plans to buy it for another 3 months, at least till I complete my exams) and believe me the book made me more confused than before about gals… :)

Okay, let me tell what this book is all about…

"You Are Here" has written on a first-person basis (I enjoy this kind of writing style, through out the book I just felt like I was conversing with character), deal with the life of 25-year-old Arshi who is knotted in the web of life. There seem to be no end to her problems which come in the form of an American step-mom, cheating ex-boyfriend, gorgeous crush, over-sentimental neighbors to name a few. This one has got very witty, humorous and in-your-face style of writing.

I don't feel it's not a bad idea to spend 200 rupees on this book, its complete paisa vasool…

GeT Focused

Sometimes... nah! Not sometimes in-fact all the time I wonder that "Why on the earth do I get myself into situation that I can't handle?"

Either there's a problem with me or with my perception of things, situations and people around me. I jus donn seem to make sense to myself :(

I keep on thinking to myself, what's the next possible disaster I'm taking myself towards?! I jus can't keep my head working right.

It’s not even that I'm spoiled... fortunately; I'm blessed with all that one can possibly want to lead a happy life.

The only thing that I know for sure is, that I m still far from perfect and I'm far from what I really ever wanted to be, long way to go, perhaps I would be better someday !!!

"Get focused! TRANSFORM" ?!! Well, yeah... may be

Can’t think of a Title

It's been happening for some time now.

I write a few lines and then I hit the "backspace". I put down a thought into words and I erase it. I donno why?

Is it 'coz I donn find the words to continue or is it because I get confused with so many thoughts combating with each other?

The bottom line is, I haven't been able to compose more than a few lines (though I manage to write a quite lengthy post sometime... but it doesn't make any sense).

And they haven't been that great too. It is always easy to pass it off saying it's just a tilt patch and I'll be back in form, but it doesn't seem like this.

So until I write something nice, that may not rhyme but will make sense (I guess, but I always end up in writing non-sense)…

Being Stupid !!

All I keep thinking is…how stupid! Everything that I think has to end with these words.. “how stupid”. Nothing really, but since my new found hobby is self analysis and introspection…all I get at the end of it is “how very stupid of me”

At times when people talk to me about it I really get Incensed …well that’s because sometimes our vision is clouded (after all, human nature). But then when I think about it later, it seems everything makes sense and then again I tell myself. how very stupid of me!

If one has to find the biggest stupid on earth. who can complain and depress and then laugh out shamelessly at the same time, the search ends here, I think I'm one of those few prototypes God accidentally created (and maybe he too regrets now).

Well after reading this if you feel the same, I wouldn’t be surprised!!! :D

I guess, I’m back

I just saw the date of the last post I made on the blog! I can't believe I have kept "away" from it since almost 10 days!!! The obvious reason, I have been busy with hell lot of work

Now if I don't speak out my mind right now, I sure will let the anger build and if it comes out. I don't know whom I would kill (I am already running out of place to hide bodies. I mean the dead ones!!!)

I love working, working at my own pace and in my own style and I have my own ways of getting things done (and mind you they work!!! ) because if I wouldn't, I would not be sitting where I am today…

I know I am intelligent (stop smirking), well may be not as much as those MENSA stupids, but hey! There definitely is something about my work that keeps the clocks running!? (Everyone thinks that way, even if remotely in the back of their head and in the most subconscious manner!)

I sometimes wonder if people can really be so bugging / irritating or they just pretend to be so!? It's strange that we always find some idiots sitting on top!!!

I hate it when people who really don't know anything about my area of work telling me what's best to do. I hate that unsubscribed piece of advice. Just 'coz one possesses the power to make a final call doesn't mean that he has to expose it all the time!? (With no logical reasoning?!)

I hate being told what to do!!! It's like if I have taken on to do something, I sure will finish it in my way. If you want to stand and instruct, Oh well! Leave me alone to myself and if you truly want to help, I will more than glad to put up (even the silliest of your requests!)
As popular quote (or whatever), "It's not what you speak, it's how you speak that matters". (And those who don't understand this. Well, keep yourself away from me!!!)

“Rock On” rocks

The music of the movie Rock On had actually rocked all of us even before it hit the theaters. And that is probably the reason why I, along with a handful of my friends, cued in front of the ticket counter in one of the high end cinema theaters of Mysore on the second day of its release(I know it's too late).

After two hours of what was claimed to be all about rock and rocking, I would honestly say that I am not disappointed with the film. This movie had to rock with Arjun Rampal and Akhtar himself taking the center stage… not to forget some real meaningful acting from debutant Prachi Desai.

It was a simple story told with emotions and a lot of feeling, like most Akhtar films such as Dil Chahta Hai(it's my all time favorite), even Rock On is about the various faces of a youth's life and all about living your dream. The movie is about a rock band and their trials and sufferings. Farhan Akhtar impresses in all the roles that he plays- that of an actor as well as a singer.

When I talk about performances in the movie, how can I miss Luke Kenny and Purab Kohli? You can never miss Kenny, who looks like an original rock star amongst the four. Apart from Kenny, you cannot help but notice Purab Kohli who stuns you with his amazing performance.

Finally, putting in a word about the music of the film which is literally its mainstay. With ShankarEhsaanLoy, music can never go wrong, which was also the case here. The songs of the film were charming and very young and fresh. If you ask me, they are going to rule the charts for the next few months for sure.

Rock On left me feeling happy even hours after I had left the theater, even we had planned to watch it one more time on next day(unfortunately we couldn't made it), and you could think the impact of the movie on us. I would say that the movie is a must watch!

I'll rate this 4.99 out of 5 ('Coz of casting Prachi Desai, the movie looses 0.01)

We BOys

There are certain oddities which are wired into our DNA's. Something which is an 'in-built' feature of the 'boyish'- circuit… And makes us act in a more stereotyped way.

Raymond suits or Marlboro cigarettes don't make a 'complete man', but surely these oddities do.'Coz these are natural qualities (mind it… not discriminations) unlike 'the complete man' brand strategies.

Let's take all Husbands/Sons/Brothers in one bracket: the Stereotype Male (I'll call it SM). Every guy 'by-default' is a derived from an abstract class SM.

Whenever you see a SM walking into a jewelry showroom, he feels like an Alien in a strange planet. Even a 5 year old SM feels bored here 'coz he doesn't understand them. He feels lost... (Unless he's a Jewelry-Designer),SM's are the sole reasons, why you find couches and cushioned seating at jewelry shops/saree centers, where they can sit and wait till their female counter-parts can do the shopping. Sometimes, you can also observe SM-SM bonding at these places. Like the War Prisoners at Pakistan-Central-Jail, SM gel with other SM fellows, because they precisely understand each other (not sexually, unless they are gays).

No SM can differentiate between a bangle and a bracelet... Nor do they know the different designs and types of saris. A SM's knowledge is still primitive here where saris are very long piece clothes and Gold is an over-priced metal. This does not mean that we SMs cannot appreciate beauty or creativity. Rather I would say that we totally lack in this feminine-shopping department…
So, the next time you see a SM smiling and enjoying while jewelry/sari shopping (unless he's not flirting with sales girl), you know he's faking it (I bet he'll be faking).
Some SM prototypes may slightly differ in their behavior due to external forces (or 'coz of extended methods. This one for my software frens which make you guys understand better).

Bollywood Geometry

Last Friday on "MTV Wassup?" (The only show I really enjoy watching). It's showcased that "Bachna ae Haseeno" is a typical Bollywood's boy meets girl-girl-girl story,

But still I'm gonna watch this one just coz of Minisha Lamba, she looks stunning in the movie (well, I seen her only in the trailers),

Bollywood love is always triangular, quadangular or Sexgonal. Oops... I mean Hexagonal.

Lest see what other movies are based on geometry of love

DTPH: Karishma loves SRK, SRK loves Madhuri, and Madhuri loves Akshay who can't dance.

Kal Ho Na Ho: SRK and Saif loves Priety, Priety loves SRK. In the end Saif marries Priety. SRK hears this news and dies of heart attack.

Race: Saif loves Bips. Bips loves Akshay. Akshay loves Katrina. Katrina loves Saif. Everyone loves everyone in this movie, but it is all about hatred and jealousy.

KANK: This one is awesome... SRK hates Priety. Rani hates Abhi and BigB loves Kiron Kher. Anyways this KJ film is all about loving other's wife.

Lagaan: Grasy loves Amir; the firangi lady also loves Amir. And Amir loves playing cricket.

Dil mange more: Shaheed love Soha, Tulip Joshi and Ayesha. The only one who is not romantically linked with Shaheed is Gulshan Grovar.

Kuch Kuch Hota Hai: SRK loves Rani. Kajol loves SRK. When SRK loves Kajol, Sallu loves Kajo. But right now Sallu and SRK just hate each other (I hate this movie for no reason).

DDLJ: SRK loves Kajol and Mandira loves him. Amarish Puri doesn't love anyone but the Kabhutars.

Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam: Sallu loves Aish. Aajay loves Aish. Instead of enjoying all the attention, Aish just cries and lets her saari fly all the time.

Devdas: Aish and SRK are in love with each other. Then Madhuri falls in love with SRK. At the end he just plays spin the bottle with doggie.

n I just hate SRK. :)

What I did this weekend??

Well, the only thing I did over this weekend is (actually you don't believe this) reading, reading and more reading :)

Whole this weekend I was addicted to "Five point someone, what not to do at IIT?" by Chetan Bhagat (infact this one is the first English novel that I'm hoping to complete)

It all happened like this,

Till Saturday afternoon I was dead! (Means I was lazing in Aman's room…), I was just bored of those non sense TV shows, n looking for some interesting things around, by chance I red the cover page of the book lying on the TV table, a review is written on it in bold letters

"A perfect ten… this is 270 pages pure fun"

I was quite excited about the book, n in few pages I found it true,

Believe me it was far better than those dramatic reality shows on the TV.

This fiction of 270 pages had presented in such real way, some where some time you just relate yourself to a character.

Sometimes back in one of my post, I mentioned the idea of "Perfect Girl"; you just find one in this book called "Neha".

n You don't think I completed over 250 pages in just two days, hoping to complete it as early as possible,

'Coz I don't want to get habitual of reading these bloody English fictions. :)

Anyways, have happy week…

Its raining again

Its rainning again here in Mysore after a long 15days interval, what is about the rains that you like?

I have always loved the rains, especially the ones in Belgaum. Here are some of those things I love doing in the rains

*Just get totally wet, like till my clothes feel they have been washed really well ( including underware :) )

*Take walks through water logged on the streets ( it can be ewww for people but I loved doing that)

*Splash water around when I ride ( Not on pedestrians 'coz I hate people doing that to me)

*Eat Vadapavs and Onion Bhaji or pakodas .... spicy and hot!!! (close ur mouth, it could flood... )

*Top those up with hot tea...

*Play football/vollyball in the mud... I find that a real guy thing...

*Sit in the veranda or balcony and just watch people walking through the rain, the layer of umbrellas that cover the street.

*Wet gals are sexy. (no explanation here)..

*You can share ur umbrella with some hotty if shes not carrying one, but it hardly happens (infact only in movies). most of the times I can see guys running for a cover and gals walking with umbrella (no humanity).

Lot more to include, but I'm running out of space here :)

It took me 18 months

Yesterday I was on the way to the “Urs Road” in my very own city bus. It was not too crowded but most of the people were standing n preparing plan to grab the empty seats.

Between all this heck, I was just enjoying the Enrique’s Insomniac (beware of these songs, it makes you addictive) on my mobile,
When bus is on the half way, suddenly an Infy guy sitting next to me asked

"This bus is not working properly na…"

LOL!! I was totally dumb when heard these words n just looking at him with my mouth opened widely
By my looks he could have understood that I’m quite bad at English, before I tell something,

He added “Coz, its going very slow”, OMG finally I understood what he meant of “Not working properly”
I just replied some Blah… Blahs…

Com’ on, I think I’m going off the track.

There are two reasons why I have been to Urs Road, that too on Wednesday
First one, Ahhh! It’s secrete, I’m not really gonn tell you guys about it.

Second one is to get Earrings for my mom,
donn laugh I’m damn serious, and to get those I have been Tanisq.
When looked at sales girl there I couldn’t stop myself to flirt, she’s a perfect girl (well, I have my own definition for a “Perfect Girl” it’s not the time to write about it)
After being there for an hour and with lots of choices in front of me, SG helped me to get dashing stud gold earrings for mom, you donn believe I’m working from last 18 months n its first gift that I bought for my mom (such a shameless guy).
The only thing that I missed is to ask that Sales Girl’s name!!! I think it would take another 18 months for me :(

Friends...

This one specially for my friens on this Friendship day…
People often get mess-up between Love n Friendships. Let’s give a try to simplify these stuffs

Q. how do u want your partner to be?
A. he/she should be a good friend.

the ans comes in micro-seconds....
there are many other points too, but this answer you will find comman in all.
even i believe that our partner shud be a good friend with whom we can share our good and bad times,secrets etc.
so ur love should be ur best friend.
but its inverse it’s not true.
u cannot develop crush on ur best friend. i mean its insane.
i guess this is the mistake which most of the people commit. they feel they are in love when they share a perfect rapport with a friend.
but the truth is they are just friends and not lovers.
to be in love is entirely different than to b friends. its just a entirely different stage.
a stage above friendship.
consider a pyramid with love at the top and friendship just below that.
that can even be explained by these two scenes:

SCENE 1-
Rahul and Anjali are two childhood friends. they share everything. Crushes, secrets, mistakes commited everything. Later on one day they both were in a beach. Suddenly a cool breeze blows away Anjali's dupata. it catches Rahul's glare. Background music starts and he feels "OMG I’m in love with her".
i m sorry to say but this only happens in Karan Johar’s movies. (This is the reason, why I hate SRK n KJ)

SCENE 2-
Pappu and Meghna met in comman friend’s party. they both gets attracted to each other. Pappu moves forward and strikes a conversation.he asks for her no.they started talking on phone.their meeting become frequent.they started sharing thier feelings,secrets etc.then one fine day Pappu proposes Meghna.

now if u see in both cases they were good friends. but love is only in 2nd case.
i always believed love needs attraction at first. but that doesn’t mean all attractions are love.
its very trully said u might have many good friends but you love only once.

NOTE: No two person's perspective about love is similar...

Something worst happened in my life......

a thing which never happened in my entire life....

and a thing which should have never happened.....

My LIFE became BUSY.....

But no tension, i can change change it in few days....

Qs ??

A question, I know its unlike me but I was wondering about it and here it goes.

You truly love someone so much so that you know they are the person for to spend your life with but then things dont work out well and you arent with them anymore. You move on and later in your life you fall into love with someone (may be a couple of times more). Do we still look for that soulmate in that someone we are now in love with? Faint traces like habits, looks or behavior? Do we??

NOt in mood to giva title

Currently My mood is like bored to the core.
Thought let me list out what all I am finding boring at this moment

1. This my damn cubicle is boring.

2. Getting up early morning for this office ; I am really bored of that !!
(Daily I wake up at 7, but still I feel its early for this **** job)

3. This routine life; ...I need a break ...I guess !!

4. Cafeteria People don’t serve something innovative ; different stuff …how boring is that !!

5. I want to go to sea shore ; but here there is none .
(but, I have plan to go Goa next month)

This is what happens ; when you are too bored ; you write crappy post.

Missing... ??

There exist a single digit number of people who can show authority on you and you love (even I love) them for doing that.
It is funny when you throw extreme rigidness to few when they try to force you for something and for some you just grant them that right. Probably because they mean a lot to you and you value them for being what they mean to you.
The authority in such cases is a mean to send a message to let them know that "You belong to me!!” The feeling of belonging; being cared; felt wanted; valued makes you long for that authority.

Image: deviantart

Nostalgia

- Unconditional Support
- Fight for pocket money
- Rules to live by
- Questions to be answered
- Advices about life
- Long shopping hours and still returning home empty handed
- Comfort in asking anything you want
- An all time support to fall back
- Teary eyes every time you leave the city
- Hot cuppa tea and drying wet hair when you come home drenched
- Ready evening snack when you come home from collage
- Classes that we never used to listen

The list in unending.... I miss every single of that time.... I wish I can undo the time & back to those days.... It is too huge price for growing up ....

CooL Factor

If one makes a list of the world’s extremely over-used and wrongly-used words, whether they are used ‘in context’ or ‘not in context’ … Then I think ‘COOL’ will surely make it to the Top #3. May be lots of dumb people believe that using this lingo raises their stud-quotient or whatever. If this is what these ‘some’ people think then let me tell them, that you are ‘totally’ wrong.

A definition of cool that fits here is,

COOL: “A word to use when you don't know what else to say, or when you are not that interested in the conversation. Sometimes, it can be used when you do not have any knowledge of the subject, yet you want to act as if you know-it-all.”

Some ‘cool’ related FAQ’s and duh-full answers, which I experienced with ma friends…

“Howz life?”
“Cool”

“Hey ! See my new phone?”
“Cool”

“What do you think about LINQ?”
“Cool”

Okay… gimmee a break. I know that sometimes our vocab goes empty, but that doesn’t mean that we use ‘cool’ and ‘sexy’ to describe everything. One more thing… Mail-id’s. A lot of people don’t realize but at times, their mail ids speak a lot about themselves. I’ll share a few of them… like

cool.guy.me@hotMALE.com
rockin_stud @hooho.com
69_coolchick@ fe-mail.com
v.me.smart @ she-mail.com

What does this mean? You are so cool that your entire body has gone numb and is dying of flu with common cold.
To all these above very HOT n COOL chicks/studs, I have nothing personal against you. It’s just that you sound pathetically FAKE and lika despo.

what is "despo" ??, Google it !!!

No more blogging :(

I'm completely trapped by busy project schedule, so guys don't expect much here till end of July.....

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रूठ गया है मनाने वाला

अब कोई नही मेरे नाज़ उठानेवाला;

जाने क्या सोचता है यह खुला दरवाज़ा,

शायद रास्ता भूल गया है कोई आनेवाला.



One more...
इतना मत यद् आओ की क़यामत अजाये,

इतना मत सताओ की अंकोमे आसू अजाये,

जानता हूँ तुम यादो के हकदार हो,

पर इतन मत तडापाओ की खुदा से शिकायत होजाये

wHaT iS lOvE? Answered Here...

Weekend, It’s really boring in Mysore… to kill the boredom I was looking through some blogs, I found one post that most of the bloggers posted about is “WHAT IS LOVE ?”. I found Sheetal’s attempt on the topic is really interesting, even the comment for the post by “PRT” (usually I use this acronym for my name… n donno know who’s this guy, but sounds interesting).

With no further delay, let’s check what’s cooking in mY mAD MInd …
Love, sounds heavy? Quite natural. For a change, why not dig into the more mushy affairs of the heart. Ever tried to define love? Not that it matters, since love is one of the most incomprehensive of emotions. Yet it’s probably worth a try to come up with some of the cliched definitions of love. The collection of definitions is certainly not original; on the contrary it is a collective expression of many experiences of multiple people across a timescape.

Love is daring to dream the impossible dream and believing that it will come true. (Time to go to bed)
Love is the act of giving unconditionally without expecting anything in return.
Love is knowing when to speak and when to keep silent
Love is when silence speaks louder than words
Love is letting go of someone, but never giving up on him/her
Love is having the courage to say you are sorry
Love is never having to say Sorry but meaning it nevertheless
Love is about forgiving even before hearing the word sorry
Love is about accepting someone for whom he/she is and not what you want him/her to be
Love is about changing yourself not because someone asks you to, but because you want to
Love is about daring to trust someone with your darkest fears and deepest secrets
Love is overcoming the fear of loss ( Aaj Pooja kal koi dooja ! )
Love is an act of faith (I remember that one of my friend’s GF had seven affairs apart with him that really act of faith ;-). )
Love is the only war that one can lose and yet be as happy the winner

Wow! enough of mushiness let the posts begin :)
When you fall in love, it is temporary madness. It blows your top like an earthquake and then collapses. And when it collapses you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots are become so knotted together that is inconceivable that you should ever part. ’Coz this is what love is, love is not breathlessness, it’s not the excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day .It is not lying awake in the night, imagining that he/she is kissing every part of your body. Noooo… don’t blush.
Do I sound like a 60 year old granny giving advice to teenagers? Naaaaaaa…………

NO titlE this TiMe...

इस दो पल की ज़िंदगी मैं तनहाई क्यों हैं.
लोगों कि हमसे रुसवाई क्यों हैं.
दुनिया मैं इंसान कम नही हैं,
फ़िर हमारे साथ सिर्फ़ हमारी परछाई क्यों हैं.

The Many Colours of Friendship

Friendship is one of the most precious jewels studding the crown of humanity. Faith, trust, and honesty are probably the three cornerstones upon which the foundation of friendship is built. Deception, treachery and betrayal are the bejeweled daggers that stab the heart of a true friend. Thoughtlessness and Indifference are the poisons that can nip a budding friendship even before it blooms. Jealousy and Ego are the insidious serpents that turn one friend against another. Friendship is never easy. Friendship can be cruelly heartbreaking at times, and be pleasurably rewarding at others. Friendship does not mean taking someone for granted, on the dissimilar it involves understanding each other to such a great extent that words are no longer required to convey one's feeling to the other. Friendship involves acceptance. Friends do not try to change each other, they accept each other for what they are, irregularities and flaws notwithstanding. Friendship is like a Weak thread that binds people , a delicate bond that demands careful handling since once a the thread gets knotted, even after careful efforts to disentangle it, the bond never truly remains as beautiful. At times friendship entails sacrifice and pain. But distance and time do little to diminish the intensity of true friendship. Finding Friendship is almost akin to finding true love, and I do feel that once you find your true friends you should never let them go, and let them know how much you value them.

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Arthur Ashe, the legendary Wimbledon player was dying of AIDS which he got due to infected blood he received during a heart surgery in 1983.

From world over, he received letters from his fans, one of which conveyed: "Why does GOD have to select you for such a bad disease"?

To this Arthur Ashe replied:

"The world over -- 50 million children start playing tennis, 5 million learn to play tennis,
500,000 learn professional tennis, 50,000 come to the circuit, 5000 reach the grand slam,
50 reach Wimbledon, 4 to semi final, 2 to the finals,
when I was holding a cup I never asked GOD 'Why me?'.
And today in pain I should not be asking GOD 'Why me?' "

"Happiness keeps you Sweet,
Trials keep you Strong,
Sorrow keeps you Human,
Failure keeps you humble and Success keeps you glowing, but only Faith & Attitude Keeps you going.........

On occasion of Mother's Day

Why I drink BeeR?

"Sometimes when I reflect back on all the beer I drink I feel ashamed - Then I look into the glass and think about the workers in the brewery and all of their hopes and dreams. If I didn't drink this beer, they might be out of work and their dreams would be shattered. Then I say to myself, 'It is better that I drink this beer and let their dreams come true than be selfish and worry about my liver.'"

thats one among the 100's of reasons y i drink

Cheers to life...

unfortunately these are not my lines,

on last boring Wednesday afternoon one of my friend messaged me these lines.

It's too cool, isn't it ??

Hmmmm..... I'm still thinking what are the other 99 reasons....